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Gay-couple-huggingAnal toys are becoming far more popular as more and more of us explore the pleasures of anal sex, whether you consider yourself a ‘top’ or ‘bottom’ below are just a few tips that you should take into account to get you started.

1. Keep it clean!

H.Y.G.I.E.N.E is a must! At esmale we say keep it clean, don’t treat them mean. Before sex or playing with your anal toys it’s a good idea to bathe, shower and anal douche. This will ensure you’re rectum is super clean and avoid any unnecessary accidents.

2. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay!

To help the bottom relax, first indulge in foreplay. Use your tongue and fingers to gently massage the opening of the anus. Toys can help too; why not try a slim butt plug? Start small and work your way up to the real thing.

3. Apply a generous dollop of anal lube

Just like any sexual activity it’s absolutely essential to use a thick, gooey, silicone or water-based lubricant (both latex-friendly for condoms and suitable for anal toys). Listen to your partner and reapply more frequently than not.

4. Speciality lubes

Pjur are world famous for their rnage of anal lubes that contain desensitising ingredients such as Jojoba extract. Pjur lube works with your anal lube to help energise and enhance your enjoyment.

5. Practise makes perfect

Before you invite him home, practice on your own! A butt plug will help stretch your anus and prepare you for the sensations that you will experience during anal sex. The butt plug range at esmale is a firm favourite with beginners and anal pro’s alike.

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